Sunday, January 27, 2013

Knowing Your Strengths and Weakness + MBTI Excitement!

On Wednesday we did a great exercise where we looked inward and identified what will make us great peer mentors but also some things that we want to improve on. I really like doing these types of activities, especially in the context of a class. For most of our school courses we walk in knowing what we want to learn (or what we're required to learn!) but for a leadership course there is such a broad focus: To be better leaders for the Hixson Program. I love this course because its not like Calculus or English; This course is not to just learn skills but to grow as a person. There's nothing better then being able to identify what you think you need to improve on to be successful and finding a goal for yourself and having a place to really sink your teeth in to do it.
Next week we're doing MBTI and I'm really excited! I love listening to Debra talk about personality types because every time I learn more about myself and what I can do to be more successful. I wish I had paid more attention to it when I was a freshman because I changed a lot of how I do things last year and its helped me a lot because I took the time to really reflect on it which I unfortunately did not do three years ago.
I think the best thing any leader can do is know where their strengths lay but also their weaknesses. I know a lot of people that are great leaders but have taken on a challenge that end up horribly because they weren't aware of their weaknesses in the context. I'm a person that needs deadlines to get things done (thus why I'm posting this right on the deadline!) and I struggle on projects even when I love what I'm doing when told "Just have it done soon". I try to avoid things like that and if I can't I try to get a deadline out of whomever I'm reporting to. I have to do this at work a lot and I'm pretty sure my boss thinks I'm crazy every time I keep asking when she wants things finalized. It's worth it though!

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest"
-Confucius

3 comments:

  1. I am so excited for MBTI results as well, Megan! As a freshman I found the results to be exceedingly helpful and I can only imagine what else I will learn about myself on Wednesday!

    I usually need deadlines to work effectively too, having lofty goals makes it too easy to procrastinate!!!!

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  2. I am way excited to see the results of the MBTI activity we did last week. I think this is going to delve deeper into who we really are. Different people from different backgrounds working towards the same goal. Kinda like the 100 1st year Hixson we will be teaching this upcoming fall.

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  3. Megan,

    I am also very excited about seeing the MBTI results. And it seems everyone else is as well. I just recently learned what my new strengths are (see my blog if you are curious) and I really can't wait to see how I can tie my MBTI results in with those and start figuring out how to utilize them.

    And I am the type of person who needs deadlines too. Darn procrastination.

    Joshua

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