Sunday, February 10, 2013

Cultural Proficiency


This week Easten led us in a discussion about Cultural Proficiency. We started off with a great game of All My Neighbors that went straight into a discussion on differences between us that aren’t on the surface. Obviously we’re all Iowans, going to Iowa State and are a part of the Hixson Program but even within our little group, there are a lot of differences.

I really enjoyed the worksheet as well; It gave us a lot to reflect on about ourselves. I enjoyed talking to Brad about thing that make us unique that could be misread until explained. I loved having the practice about articulating differences in a positive light and once you can do it for yourself, it’s easier to do so for others. I believe this can be useful in the classroom since not all the students are really going to know how to approach cultural differences appropriately, especially when discussing them.

Just as some of us faced, they aren’t going to have the largest knowledge base when it comes to cultural differences before coming to Iowa State and its going to be hard to articulate what they mean which will lead to stating things in a negative light. At one point last year we did a similar thing and one of the phrases that wasn’t always used positively is 'Farm Kid' which you wouldn’t think could be used negatively but it can be. “Oh, he’s just a Farm Kid and doesn’t know…” or something like that can come up in the classroom and if you can’t rearticulate that back to them or explain why that isn’t appropriate, it could be difficult for some of the students that do associate themselves as a ‘Farm Kid’. 

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Mid-Year Institue and ISLE Sessions


I apologize in advance for the length of this blog post but I have a lot of things to talk about for each session I attended this past weekend!

Mid-Year Institute

Resume Session

I learned a lot in this session. As always when you’re in a resume workshop, you talk a lot about wording in your resume but the presenter also covered something I’ve never had the opportunity to work on in a workshop: using descriptive language in conversation. With the career fair coming up soon, I thought it was really interesting and he had us talk to our peers about our leadership using some words most people reserve for their written resumes. I’ve never thought about needing to be able to smoothly incorporate these buzzwords in talking about myself before, nor really had the experience of talking about myself with these terms outside of an actual interview situation so I appreciate the practice. One thing that came up in the Q&A is where it is appropriate to place our experience as peer mentors. We’re not directly getting paid but it’s a lot more than being in a club. My question for everyone is, where do you think Hixson Peer Mentor should be listed? Job or involvement?

Social Media Session

I thought this was a really informative session. Obviously we’ll be using social media in the fall for Social Media Week but the women presenting really gave a lot of insight into what platforms we could be using as a communication tool within the classroom. I got a lot of tips to improve my use of social media with my students. I really liked their suggestion of asking the students before class starts or at the beginning what platforms they use to find a good middle ground. With that we could create a Facebook group or start a Twitter account separate from our personal accounts for classroom related information and reminders. They also gave the really great suggestion that I hope to use in the fall of using Google Calendars. It’s a great place to organize all the dates and its able to be shared with everyone since it’s the one platform every student will have through ISU. Another great thing they talked about was their use of Google Drive. Not only for the collaboration aspect but also an accountability approach. If the students are required to write assignments in Drive, they’ll always have it and it can elevate excuses for why they don’t have a particular assignment to turn in. No more “I forgot it” or “My computer crashed”. Either they have it done or they don’t. The only problem I can see is the fact that our classrooms are not lab-based but it could be useful.

ISLE

Group Dynamics Session

I went to this session hoping to get a lot out of it, which I did. My section had a little bit of a problem with dynamics last year and I thought it would be a great thing to get some insight. One of the things the presenters stressed was self-awareness, knowing how you communicate and what kinds of things could prevent you from communicating effectively. I think this fit perfectly with our lesson this week and getting to know our MBTI types and this class in general! Another thing they brought up was the idea about setting expectations. When the session started, ground rules and expectations were laid out and I think this is a great idea considering my experience. My co-leader and I did not set many expectations at the beginning of the semester and only did so when we ran into problems. I loved the more psychological and sociological approach they took to discussing it. I’m more of the type of person that finds motivation for actions more interesting then straight up being told what to do to control actions.

Emotional Intelligence Session 

I was drawn to this session because in my management courses we’ve talked a lot about EI and the managerial implications of it but I wanted more of the student level approach. You wouldn’t think that EI in the workplace and in a peer group would be different but they really are and should be. Even within different types of peer groups, EI needs to be approached completely different.  Emotional Intelligence is basically the ability to assess and supervise your emotions and thoughts. “Leaving it at the door” is a great example of it. If you walk into a room and let your crappy day affect you, the people in that room are going to pick up on that feeling as well. Although the presenter didn’t talk a lot about techniques to improve your EI, she did present some interesting things about why EI is important when dealing with people from our generation (Gen Y). For the most part we are highly computer literate which can also lead to having less developed interpersonal skills from hiding behind a screen, we are highly skeptical and want validation and proof of things before believing or supporting anything, and we negotiate everything and aren’t afraid to challenge others to get the information we want. These are things we’ll need to keep in mind when communicating and dealing with not only our students but also our peers outside of the classroom. Knowing what we are dealing with can help us regulate and keep composure along with knowing the appropriate communication style to approach any situation. This was really interesting to me because, as I mentioned before, I’m a motivational psychology junkie.


I know that was a lot to read and if you did it, I’m so proud of you and you deserve a hug! I can’t wait to read everyone else’s experiences and lessons they learned at MYI and ISLE!

ISFJ!


I’m just going to say it but us six introverts got to stick together in this group! I think it was great talking through the MBTI exercise questions in class. It was really great being able to talk to everyone and seeing how we view things similarly and differently.

One thing I did since Wednesday was take note of all the times I acted out of preference. I’m very aware of when I’m acting introverted and so on but I’ve never really noticed when I was out of preference. Debra was very right when she said we all use all the different types of personalities everyday. One notable situation I experienced this week was regarding a group project step due on Thursday for me. Me and four other people needed to fill out a sort of thesis worksheet explaining the basics of our project to turn in and we have been passively trying to get a time all set up to meet up and fill it out for a few weeks. So the J in me decided to get everything really set in stone and just flat out asked everyone to send me their availabilities; I sent out an email to remind everyone about the change in direction we determined after speaking to the professor. Both actions are nothing out of the ordinary for me. And then I did something that normally would be seen as very ‘judging’ and asked everyone to meet up on Saturday (because the F in me was empathetic to people not wanting to meet up on Super Bowl Sunday). As I think everyone knows now, I do not do the early starting thing. So technically I was acting more in my J but it was completely shocking to me after I pushed send. Who is this person? Getting stuff done early?

I also did a lot of introducing of myself this weekend but I think I was in my E zone after all the sessions at the Mid-Year Institute and ISLE that made me interact with people I didn’t know. It was a good change!

I also found out while surfing some MBTI-based Tumblr blogs that the character Samwise Gamgee is considered to be ISFJ. He’s always been my favorite anyway!


Sunday, January 27, 2013

Knowing Your Strengths and Weakness + MBTI Excitement!

On Wednesday we did a great exercise where we looked inward and identified what will make us great peer mentors but also some things that we want to improve on. I really like doing these types of activities, especially in the context of a class. For most of our school courses we walk in knowing what we want to learn (or what we're required to learn!) but for a leadership course there is such a broad focus: To be better leaders for the Hixson Program. I love this course because its not like Calculus or English; This course is not to just learn skills but to grow as a person. There's nothing better then being able to identify what you think you need to improve on to be successful and finding a goal for yourself and having a place to really sink your teeth in to do it.
Next week we're doing MBTI and I'm really excited! I love listening to Debra talk about personality types because every time I learn more about myself and what I can do to be more successful. I wish I had paid more attention to it when I was a freshman because I changed a lot of how I do things last year and its helped me a lot because I took the time to really reflect on it which I unfortunately did not do three years ago.
I think the best thing any leader can do is know where their strengths lay but also their weaknesses. I know a lot of people that are great leaders but have taken on a challenge that end up horribly because they weren't aware of their weaknesses in the context. I'm a person that needs deadlines to get things done (thus why I'm posting this right on the deadline!) and I struggle on projects even when I love what I'm doing when told "Just have it done soon". I try to avoid things like that and if I can't I try to get a deadline out of whomever I'm reporting to. I have to do this at work a lot and I'm pretty sure my boss thinks I'm crazy every time I keep asking when she wants things finalized. It's worth it though!

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest"
-Confucius

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Reflection, Leaving It At The Door, and Fish

One of the things that I still haven't mastered in the last year is the concept of 'leaving it at the door'. I consider it one of the best things I aspire to do because I think it does a lot of good to create a really good focus on what is at hand. But I still struggle with it. I consider myself to be a very optimistic person and I don't let a lot of things get to me. This is normally considered a good thing but since I don't have a lot of practice in managing lots of little issues that come up its very hard to leave it at the door when these big problems pop up. I've sat down about five times tonight to write this blog but I keep opening new tabs and Googling solutions to the numerous car problems I discovered tonight. I'll probably return to that quest when I'm done with this post but right now I'm pledging the next few minutes to this and only this. Little steps lead to great lengths!
We went around and shared what we were most looking forward to this upcoming semester(s) and I'd like to add 'having the opportunity to focus on the smaller details' to my answer. These details are the little things that I neglected when focusing on the big picture last year. Now I have the basics down and its time to focus on learning the little things that will make the student's first semester the best introduction to Iowa State they could receive. Looking back at the fall semester I see a lot of things I could have done better or could have done without in the lessons and a whole lot of moments I could say 'I wish I knew then what I know now'. I think watching FISH! was a great reminder of what we, as peer mentors, can accomplish when adjusting a few small things on how we approach something. I hope that as a returner I can help everyone else master the big picture sooner so they can focus with me. I'm looking forward to the next semester and beyond. I have a really good feeling about it!


Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Hixson Section 7: How to Create Your Blog!


How to step up your blog!

1.       Go to www.blogger.com
2.       You will need to create a gmail account outside of your iastate.edu address if you don’t already have one. Make sure you log off of your cymail before trying to log in with the other account.
3.       Once you log in, find the “New blog” button on the left side of the screen.
4.       Create a name for your blog and a URL. We suggest using your name for the URL but the title of your blog is up to you. Please keep it appropriate.
5.       Choose a theme. Make sure you choose one that is not distracting from the message you will be sending with your blog posts. For those who are internet savvy, there is a option for a custom theme of your choice. Make it your own!
6.       Make sure you go to the top right corner once you are done creating your blog. There you will find a drop down tab with your name. Select the link to your Blogger profile and then choose edit profile.
7.       Create your profile as you wish. Please upload a photo of yourself at the bare minimum. Make sure it is just a photo of you by yourself or have anyone else in the photo cropped out. You don’t want to misrepresent yourself. Keep it appropriate! For those who want, there are plenty of places to share more information with us and your fellow section-mates.
8.       Send your blog URL to Megan AND Mike for us to compile a class list so we can all follow one another for the blogging assignment. For reference, our emails are mgoneil@iastate.edu and mtlach@iastate.edu
 

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Diversity


Wow! What an eye opening lecture! A lot of great discussion was had during our ice cream social. I’m continually surprised with new points of view on diversity and ways to view differences. I think what surprised me the most was the polls about the pictures of the woman and man. Mostly about how we answered the same question about each but the answers took on different tones. We focused more on what the person might describe themselves as when looking at the woman but as a group took a completely different approach to the man. I enjoy discussing gender perceptions because its something that everyone could, in theory, have similar points of view but don’t. This topic comes up frequently among my friends mostly when it comes to gender roles in dating. Some of the group feel strongly about traditional gender roles and chivalry and others take on a more nonconventional look on the topic. Some believe that the guy should pay for everything and hold the doors open while others view dating as a shared experience in the way that both parties are on a date with the other and niceties should be kept even, such as the bill. But when people hear the word diversity they almost always jump to race. The point was brought up a few times in the discussion that a lot of Hixsons tend to come from small town Iowa where diversity isn’t a prominent characteristic. I know that personally I come from a town nicknamed by surround towns as “White Branch”. Racial diversity is not something I experienced growing up but my parents pushed curiosity and learning about others. I’m not afraid to ask people about their cultures and experiences. Its one of the things I fully enjoy in my life. My personal belief that there will always be someone out there that will be different than you in one way or another but ignorance of what that difference means spreads hate. The only way to overcome that is to talk and ask questions to learn and understand.